Do You Really Want to Get Better

Do You Really Want to Get Better   You’d probably think I was mad if I told that one of my clients – who I’ll call Jane – wanted to keep her ME symptoms but its true, believe me! It’s called psychological reversal and for a long time it stopped her from moving forward in life. It doesn’t only affect ME sufferers it can affect anyone whether stuck in a rut, experiencing long term negative emotions, aches and pains, etc. Could it be holding you back? In my clinic I work with clients from all walks of life their issues ranging from phobias right through to cancer. In the first few months after qualifying as an Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) practitioner I had a success rate that I was pretty pleased with but there were always the doubts in my mind about the ones I couldn’t help. Was there something more I could do for them. Then one day I read an article about an EFT therapist who had been working with a man whose chronic arm pain just wouldn’t budge until he let her into his little secret. He told her that if he got over the pain he would lose his sickness benefit and would then have to find work. Bingo! EFT involves tapping with ones fingertips whilst thinking about negative thoughts or feelings and when they tapped on ‘why I want to keep my arm pain’ the pain went away immediately – and so did his negativity surrounding it. In fact, he announced matter of factly that he would now have to find himself a job! I got to work immediately after reading this article and memorised a number of questions I could ask clients whose symptoms wouldn’t go away or would only reduce a little. Questions like – “Who will it affect if you get over this………..” “How will it negatively impact on your life if you suddenly got over this……….” “What will you have to face up to if you get over this………….” “What would you lose if you got over this……….” My success rate improved and I was able to help more clients get over their problems.   EFT works on the principle that negative energy gets stored in the body and leads to illness, aches and pains and negative mental patterns such as stress, depression and phobias. When we release the fear, guilt etc we get better. Read also artilcle buy esomeprazole